How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

How Guys Fall in Love - And How You Can Initiate this process

Guys fall in love when they get the impression that they have met a woman that's special - a woman that stands out from the crowd - one that's better than the rest. That's it plain and simple. When men meet women they put them in certain categories - they also look for All the steps you will be taking will be geared towards 'making you special'

What You Should Avoid When You Want Him To Love You

Don't Reveal Too Much Of You
I am not talking about be a 'mysterious woman' here - but the more a man knows about a woman the greater the chances are they will encounter a major turn-off - be it that you already have a child, that you are an illegal immigrant, that you are just going through a divorce, that you live with your older sister who needs to support you - whatever. The fact is you simply cannot know what it is that will signal the big NO NO for him - it is different for every guy. It is something that happens subconsciously and the guy can't help it. Yes, you want to be honest - but certain things must wait until he is already in love with you. The strange thing is: The very same thing that will turn him off in the beginning won't matter at all to him when he has already fallen in love with you.

Don't Be Too Sexy
Don't try to seduce him sexually. This will make him put you in a certain category. And that's not the one with the women he would fall in love with. Love and sex are strictly separated in a man's mind - even if he doesn't admit it.

Don't Try To Change Him
Don't try to make him a better person. Instead accept him the way he is. This will make you much more special than most other women.

Make Him Fall In Love - By Being That Special Woman

Now let's get back to your one and only goal: Making yourself stand out - being so special that his mind will pull this certain trigger that says 'I won't meet a woman like that anytime soon'. This is exactly the reason why guys that don't date much or who didn't have much experience with other women fall in love much easier than men who know many women.

They simply don't have so many other experiences to compare to and their 'love mechanism' gets triggered much easier. Obviously if a guy has only dates 5 women in his live and all of them had certain traits and he suddenly meets a woman who is different he is very likely to fall in love.

So make sure you get to know the social circle and what other women he might have met. If the guy happens to be a collegue at work this is simple: Have a look at the other women he is in contact with at work. Then find out what he likes and what he doesn't like in a woman. The art now is to casually show him that you possess those traits the others don't. Don't make it too obvious of course.

Again, it is not necessary to be like him or to have similar interests as he has - it is simply crucial to be NOT like the other women around him - in a positive way of course. Try to find that negative traits that most women around him have in common. Then show him in a subtle way that you are different.