How To Get A Guy To Like You

How To Get a guy to like you - before you even meet him

Unlike what most people say you don't need to talk to him for him to like you.
Actually one of the best ways to generate attention and attraction in him is to make him like you before he has even met you! How is this possible? Let's say you are in a group with some friends and you get close to the guy you want to meet. Interact with your friends in a way to make sure the guy will notice you.

Be sure to smile and have a positive attitude. This is the key to make anybody like you - people in general like open and positive people. So when you come across as happy, fun and confident you will radiate a positive mood and attitude. Be sure to have fun and joke with your friends. This will give him the opportunity to check you out without talking to you directly.

At this point you are already communicating with him - just that he is not aware of it because he thinks you have not noticed him yet. When you meet him later - even if it is just minutes later he will have a positive attitude about you and everything else will be much easier.

Get a guy to Like You - When You meet him the first time

What matters most when you want a guy to like you is that you feel good about yourself and have confidence. While this may sound strange and is easier said than done - it os proven that nothing attracts a guy as much as a woman who feels positive and confident about herself. Try to think the opposite: Would you be attracted to someone who seems to be in a bad mood, has a negative attitude or doesn't feel comfortable about himself or the situation? Of course not - these things are a guaranteed turn-off.

Avoid the big turn-offs

Actually you will do much better than 90% of other women when you just avoid to do certain things that have proven to be major turn-offs:

Don't talk about past relationships
Nobody wants to hear that. Avoid talking about other men he would compare himself to

Don't be nervous
Many women get nervous and tend to show erratic and unnatural behavior when they meet a guy they like. Pretend to not care about him and just concentrate on having a fun conversation.

Stop nodding
Most women nod or say 'uh hmmm' at every single sentence a guy says. This is abig turn-off. Don't do it. When he tells you something - don't keep making the same gestures or noises.

Avoid long or complicated stories
Don't tell him very complex or long stories when you just meet him for the first time. You can save that for later. Remain superficial and fun.

Avoid negative stories
Avoid any story or anecdote that made you sad, angry or otherwise upset you - even if you really want to share it with someone. This is not the right moment for that. Any conversation should be easy, fun and positive.

Smell good

Wear a nice any sweet perfume - don't put on too much. Guys tend to prefer light and sweet perfumes. If you smile and he notices a nice perfume - you can be almost that this will create a positive attraction in him.

Let Him Know You Are Single

You should let him know that you are available. But don't do it in an obvious way. Never say 'I am single right now'. Rather talk about how you now have more time to go out with your female friends whenever you like. This does not mention any past relationship explicitly and it doesn't explicitly say you are single - but it gets the message across.

If you want to know more advanced tricks to make any guy like you then click here to read the tips written by my collegue Mimi Tanner...